Nothing is Gonna Ever Keep You Down
Remembering the Gospel When You are Feeling Inadequate
Lent is quickly approaching, and though we are still in Ordinary Time, it's never too early to reflect on what aspects of our spiritual life we want to work on. Are you lacking in prayer, struggling to get closer to God, or finding it difficult to truly believe in His plan for you? Are you struggling to be present at home and lead your Domestic Church?
As I reflect on my own journey, the weight of my shortcomings begins to press on me. My impatience with God’s plan leads to frustration. My confidence in my leadership feels thin as I witness others not following. These negative thoughts bring me down, making me feel like I’m failing. But then I hear Jesus’ words and remember that I’m doing my best—and He is there for me:
“Blessed are you who are poor, for the kingdom of God is yours.
Blessed are you who are now hungry, for you will be satisfied.
Blessed are you who are now weeping, for you will laugh.”
Nothing brought this truth home more clearly than what my son did today. I do my best to show my son how we should act in public—not only displaying social norms but also God's love. While I have been struggling with feelings of inadequacy as a leader when he has disruptive or disobedient moments, today he put his arm around me after Communion and started rubbing my back. This simple act of love and kindness—something he usually shares with those he has a deep relationship with—melted away my worries about being an inadequate parent. How beautiful it was to have this moment align with Our Lord’s words in the Gospel.
So as we approach Lent, and when you feel like you aren’t doing enough, just try your best—because you’re only human, and a man’s gotta learn to take it. Try to believe, even when the going gets rough, that you’ve gotta hang tough to make it.